Comments for Fe ... a life http://fe.org.au Wed, 16 May 2012 05:02:48 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 Comment on Things have been black… by wen http://fe.org.au/2012/05/11/things-have-been-black/comment-page-1/#comment-5829 wen Wed, 16 May 2012 05:02:48 +0000 http://fe.org.au/?p=1470#comment-5829 You inspire me. With all the crap that has gone on in your life, you've still managed to set up your photography biz. You had an idea about something you wanted to do and you did it. Never forget that you are an amazing woman. I'm so proud to have you for a friend. As was said above, too bad you are so very far away. Hugs and aloha from Hawaii. Wen You inspire me. With all the crap that has gone on in your life, you’ve still managed to set up your photography biz. You had an idea about something you wanted to do and you did it. Never forget that you are an amazing woman. I’m so proud to have you for a friend. As was said above, too bad you are so very far away. Hugs and aloha from Hawaii.

Wen

]]> Comment on Things have been black… by Fe http://fe.org.au/2012/05/11/things-have-been-black/comment-page-1/#comment-5828 Fe Mon, 14 May 2012 11:47:32 +0000 http://fe.org.au/?p=1470#comment-5828 I am completely overwhelmed by all of your responses. I have been in a place of not asking for / barely allowing / anyone's support. My core belief system tells me that it's not fair to burden others with my own stuff.. especially because EVERYONE has their bad stuff. And the core thing.. that I'm not worth your concern. It always shocks me when I get it. xoxox I am completely overwhelmed by all of your responses. I have been in a place of not asking for / barely allowing / anyone’s support. My core belief system tells me that it’s not fair to burden others with my own stuff.. especially because EVERYONE has their bad stuff.

And the core thing.. that I’m not worth your concern.

It always shocks me when I get it.

xoxox

]]> Comment on Things have been black… by A Guest http://fe.org.au/2012/05/11/things-have-been-black/comment-page-1/#comment-5827 A Guest Mon, 14 May 2012 00:33:09 +0000 http://fe.org.au/?p=1470#comment-5827 Fe, Please just keep in touch with us once a month. That way we know when things are black and can help even if it is just with words. I now know that you are getting up each morning and putting your shoes on. :) That there will be less fighting with the X. I know that each day you are doing what you can to make life move forward. It's hard. I'm proud of you and all that you do to make life better. You'll be in my thoughts. Fe,
Please just keep in touch with us once a month. That way we know when things are black and can help even if it is just with words. I now know that you are getting up each morning and putting your shoes on. :) That there will be less fighting with the X. I know that each day you are doing what you can to make life move forward. It’s hard. I’m proud of you and all that you do to make life better. You’ll be in my thoughts.

]]> Comment on Things have been black… by Jeff http://fe.org.au/2012/05/11/things-have-been-black/comment-page-1/#comment-5826 Jeff Mon, 14 May 2012 00:20:55 +0000 http://fe.org.au/?p=1470#comment-5826 Fe, I don't have any magical words to fix this. I know there aren't any. I wish to hell you didn't live 12000 miles away. Because I'm worried about you. And when I'm worried about someone I care about, I usually go and bang on their door and make sure they're okay, and I can't do that because you're on the other side of the planet. And I hate that. I'm sorry for all you're going through. I wish I could help. I wish I could give you a hug and look in your eyes and tell you that everything is going to be okay. But I can't. So I'm sending my guardian angel instead. I know you don't like to believe in that stuff, but I'm asking you to put aside all rational thought and believe it anyway. Close your eyes and feel her near you. Call her name when you need a friend. You were there for her when she needed you, and she'll always be there for you in return. I believe that with all my heart. Hold on, Fe. And hug your boys when you can, and never ever forget what matters most. Thinking of you today and always, Jeff Fe, I don’t have any magical words to fix this. I know there aren’t any. I wish to hell you didn’t live 12000 miles away. Because I’m worried about you. And when I’m worried about someone I care about, I usually go and bang on their door and make sure they’re okay, and I can’t do that because you’re on the other side of the planet. And I hate that.

I’m sorry for all you’re going through. I wish I could help. I wish I could give you a hug and look in your eyes and tell you that everything is going to be okay.

But I can’t. So I’m sending my guardian angel instead. I know you don’t like to believe in that stuff, but I’m asking you to put aside all rational thought and believe it anyway. Close your eyes and feel her near you. Call her name when you need a friend. You were there for her when she needed you, and she’ll always be there for you in return. I believe that with all my heart.

Hold on, Fe. And hug your boys when you can, and never ever forget what matters most.

Thinking of you today and always,
Jeff

]]> Comment on Things have been black… by A Guest http://fe.org.au/2012/05/11/things-have-been-black/comment-page-1/#comment-5825 A Guest Sun, 13 May 2012 12:24:02 +0000 http://fe.org.au/?p=1470#comment-5825 Next week Squish and I are coming over to see A on Thursday arvo for an early dinner. I can pop over for a quick hug, or plan a longer visit if you have time another day. After next week Sir will be at preschool Mondays and Fridays. Love you, won't ever give up trying to prove it. xoxoxo Next week Squish and I are coming over to see A on Thursday arvo for an early dinner. I can pop over for a quick hug, or plan a longer visit if you have time another day. After next week Sir will be at preschool Mondays and Fridays.

Love you, won’t ever give up trying to prove it.

xoxoxo

]]> Comment on Things have been black… by A Guest http://fe.org.au/2012/05/11/things-have-been-black/comment-page-1/#comment-5824 A Guest Sat, 12 May 2012 10:24:11 +0000 http://fe.org.au/?p=1470#comment-5824 Bloody hell. There are too many unfair things happening to you and they really should be shared around - I never understand how that happens. Often think of you and look to see if you have a new blog entry; was also hoping no news was good news - maybe next time it will be? xxx Amanda in Perth Bloody hell. There are too many unfair things happening to you and they really should be shared around – I never understand how that happens. Often think of you and look to see if you have a new blog entry; was also hoping no news was good news – maybe next time it will be?
xxx Amanda in Perth

]]> Comment on Things have been black… by A Guest http://fe.org.au/2012/05/11/things-have-been-black/comment-page-1/#comment-5823 A Guest Sat, 12 May 2012 10:10:02 +0000 http://fe.org.au/?p=1470#comment-5823 Me. Here. Always. xxxxxx Madmother Me.

Here.

Always.

xxxxxx

Madmother

]]> Comment on Things have been black… by A Guest http://fe.org.au/2012/05/11/things-have-been-black/comment-page-1/#comment-5822 A Guest Fri, 11 May 2012 23:55:54 +0000 http://fe.org.au/?p=1470#comment-5822 Thank you... A year is great news really.... My life got much easier when he died so think of it as temporary space. Watching my parents age too.... It's shit. Well done on building your skills.. And you are good. Make it pay X Thank you… A year is great news really…. My life got much easier when he died so think of it as temporary space.
Watching my parents age too…. It’s shit.
Well done on building your skills.. And you are good. Make it pay
X

]]> Comment on Things have been black… by A Guest http://fe.org.au/2012/05/11/things-have-been-black/comment-page-1/#comment-5821 A Guest Fri, 11 May 2012 22:48:16 +0000 http://fe.org.au/?p=1470#comment-5821 xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx Jennie xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Jennie

]]> Comment on Things have been black… by A Guest http://fe.org.au/2012/05/11/things-have-been-black/comment-page-1/#comment-5820 A Guest Fri, 11 May 2012 22:24:58 +0000 http://fe.org.au/?p=1470#comment-5820 I was wondering how you were all going but thought that (hopefully) no news is good news. The ex not seeing the boys for a year sounds to me like it'll be great.... you and the boys seriously need a break from all of the drama. The boys are old enough now to work out what's really going on. Talk about revealing your true colours though.... what an idiot! I've started a new business too (thermomix) and I can totally identify with the exhaustion that comes with running around and getting it all rolling. I've been going for 4 months and I feel like I haven't had time to sit down and relax in all that time. Went to bed last night at 9PM and slept the sleep of the dead till 7.30AM. Now that you've established your credentials and have a folio to show, now's the time to put your prices up. Fewer jobs with more $$$ means more time to recharge the batteries while still having a worthwhile income. Hang in there. Frogdancer xxx I was wondering how you were all going but thought that (hopefully) no news is good news.
The ex not seeing the boys for a year sounds to me like it’ll be great…. you and the boys seriously need a break from all of the drama. The boys are old enough now to work out what’s really going on. Talk about revealing your true colours though…. what an idiot!
I’ve started a new business too (thermomix) and I can totally identify with the exhaustion that comes with running around and getting it all rolling. I’ve been going for 4 months and I feel like I haven’t had time to sit down and relax in all that time. Went to bed last night at 9PM and slept the sleep of the dead till 7.30AM.
Now that you’ve established your credentials and have a folio to show, now’s the time to put your prices up. Fewer jobs with more $$$ means more time to recharge the batteries while still having a worthwhile income.
Hang in there.

Frogdancer xxx

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